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Wednesday, March 09, 2005


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Sunday, January 16, 2005



We spent the day in london yesterday seeing a show (sweeney todd) it was dire....
i was really looking forward to it,silly me.

We then went shopping and for some reason my feet were killing me so spent an hour moaning to the FLM, we then realised that i had odd boots on we have the same boots,mine are a size 9 his are 8...and like an adiot i had one of each on....

So mercy trip to the nearest shoe shop and comfort was restrored.

We then had a lovely meal in chinatown.

Then onto a club to meet up with friends HUGE mistake we were both so tired ..

Oh well by 2 am we were home and all snuggly in bed.

Monday, January 10, 2005

Gay Men!!

Why do some gay men and I assume straight people thrive on dramas and have such bad taste in men...

FLM and I have a friend staying he is a lovely man,who has just finished an 18 month relationship that has been very rocky from day one,with lots of rows and break ups, he finally made the break and moved out at the weekend.

Today I got a frantic call from him saying he felt unwell and what should he do..From what he said it sounded like a classic panic attack or hypo,so ambulance called, they said he had very low blood sugar and so hes now on his way to hospital..

I will lay money on the first call he makes will be to the ex to let him know...Which will start the whole drama of again..
I hope i'm wrong...

Saturday, January 08, 2005


I am beginning to feel that i'm a very selfish person...

I have been seeing the FLM for 6 months now...
And all is lovely...Except the fact that I feel we have very little quality time together,since he came out 3 months ago we have spent a lot of time with his children and that has been good,they have all been very at ease(on the surface) of our relationship.

But along with that means that we see a lot more of them,which also means that we get less time to do other things as a couple,and as this is all new to me i'm finding it sometimes difficult to not make a fuss and upset the apple cart.As most gay men don't have children we are by nature unused to thinking of others apart from partners etc.,and so meeting a man that puts his children above everyone is in someways very refreshing,but at others very hard.

But then last night FLM told me that Joe the youngest wanted to see the film White Noise with his dad..That would be fine except that we had already made plans to see it..FLM trying to please everyone has said that we will still go and see it,but that's where the crunch comes..I don't want to see it with him once he has already seen it..
Its a horror film and so the element of suspense etc will be lost on him and so take away some of the pleasure for me, I know I sound unreasonable but that's how I feel...And yes OK i'm very selfish..

Friday, January 07, 2005

Missed ideas..

Todays blog was going to be Tsunami but those that read my blog will also have seen    Blue Witch's who had the same idea ..and said it all so much better than i could have hoped to.

So all i will say is that i have had a very nice day seeing a friend that i havent seen since before xmas ...so got lots of lovely presents..


Thursday, January 06, 2005

A new year .

A new year starts (late) with a new blog.

I have finally got sorted the way to enter a new blog after having to format the trusty laptop..
I never thought I would say this but i'm so pleased that xmas has been and gone,it was a very stressful time..But enjoyable in an odd way...

lots of nice presents were exchanged(always pleasing).

And of course lots of nice food and drink were consumed...

And now starts the diet well it started last monday..So hopefully in 6 months I will be close to a normal weight...

Thats all for now but I will be back.

Tuesday, November 30, 2004


Its funny how we take things for granted...After getting the keys to the FLMS new flat just over a week ago we tested the heating etc. All fine..Then ran the hot tap...Not so fine...

So less than an hour later we had the emergency plumber out,£60 later still no hot water..Jump 4 days new plumber ..No hot water..

Jump 2 days british gas plumber arrives...And leaves 90 min. Later..Still no hot water..

Friday arrives the british gas plumber doesn't..A letter does instead to say that the part that is needed is out of stock will be ten days..

I have never been so happy to be back at my humble lil flat and a constant stream of lovely hot running water.


How can it take 15 days to get a Broadband connection up and running it amazes me that in this day and age things are still so slow..
But they have now said it will be on by the 3rd if Dec...We will see...


The new flat has this lovely halogen lighting in the bathroom,kitchen and hallway..All looks very nice..When it all works which is not often at the same time..
There is also nice lighting under the kitchen units...Which we have never been able to turn on and have no idea why...

Oh well i'm back there on Saturday....I'm hoping against hope that all will be fixed...